Great wedding toasts feel personal, short, and easy to hear—no roasts, no rambling life stories. This guide shows your speakers exactly what to say (and what to skip) so the room stays all smiles and happy-tears. You’ll get simple timing guidelines, mic basics, and a clear structure anyone can follow. Share it a week in advance and your reception will feel polished, heartfelt, and right on schedule.
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The List
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Aim for 2–3 minutes. Short = memorable; leave them wanting more, not checking the bar line.
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Start with your name + role. “I’m [Name], sister of the bride,” gives the room instant context.
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Tell one story, not five. Pick a single moment that reveals their heart—quality beats quantity.
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Keep it PG-13 and kind. Skip exes, wild nights, and inside jokes that exclude half the room.
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Speak to both partners. Address them as a team and include one sincere compliment for each.
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Mic basics matter. Hold it close to your chin; steady pace; smile so the room connects with you.
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Stand still and face the couple. Plant your feet, breathe, and let the photographer frame the moment.
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End with a wish. One sentence for their future, then: “Please raise your glasses…”
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Be ready on cue. Have notes at the top of your phone and step up when you’re called.
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Practice once out loud. Sixty seconds of rehearsal = confident delivery.
Quick FAQ
• Can I read from my phone? Yes—use large font and high contrast so you’re not squinting.
• Do I need jokes? One gentle laugh is plenty; genuine > clever.
• Before or after dinner? Both work—confirm timing with your coordinator to match the flow.
Next Steps:
Enter your wedding date in the Check Availability widget on this page to see if I’m available, then complete the form at the bottom. I’ll email you to set up a quick planning chat about toast timing and flow.
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