Your wedding music should sound like you—romantic, classy, and crazy-fun when it’s time to dance. Most “music disasters” aren’t disasters at all; they’re tiny choices that snowball (too-long first dances, request chaos, or lyrics that shock Aunt Linda). This guide shows seven funny-but-real pitfalls and the easy fixes you can do tonight. With DJ Rock My World, you get clean edits, smooth fades, and calm MC cues that keep your timeline moving and your dance floor full—without the cringe.
Thank you for reading this post, I look forward to hearing from you soon! :-)
The 7 Deadly Sins (and the Fixes)
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The Play-It-All Spreadsheet
Sin: Handing over a 200-song order list that “must” play.
Fix: Pick 5–10 must-plays, 5–10 do-not-plays, and 3 vibe lanes (e.g., modern pop, 2000s throwbacks, classy classics). Then let your DJ read the room. -
The Four-Minute First Dance
Sin: A beautiful song that… never ends.
Fix: Ask for a tasteful 2:30 fade and practice a 20-second spin + dip. Romance, not repetition. -
Request Free-for-All
Sin: Uncle brings a scroll; your vibe disappears.
Fix: Set a request plan: a short list at the DJ booth or QR to submit clean, dance-friendly songs. DJ keeps veto power for explicit or momentum killers. -
PG-13 Blind Spot
Sin: Accidentally spicy lyrics during dinner.
Fix: Choose clean versions for key moments; add “no explicit” to your notes; keep a brief do-not-play for songs that aren’t your style. -
Stop-Start Timeline
Sin: Formalities scattered everywhere = energy dips.
Fix: Stack the moments (toasts, parent dances, cake) into a tight window, then open dance and leave it open. -
Can’t-Hear-the-Vows Crisis
Sin: Guests miss your promises or readings.
Fix: Do a 30-second cue chat with your officiant (pace, where to stand, when to pause). Seat VIPs closer; keep wind/traffic doors closed during vows. No tech talk needed. -
Forgetting Bridge Songs
Sin: Teens love it, Grandma doesn’t—or vice versa.
Fix: Mix a few decade bridges (e.g., Motown → 90s R&B → current pop) so generations overlap. Your floor stays full, your photos glow.
Pro Move: Aim for a first-dance 2:30 fade that lands on a photogenic spin + dip. We time it so you get a movie-moment and momentum into open dancing.
Quick FAQ
• How many must-plays is ideal? 5–10 is perfect; after that, vibe lanes guide the rest.
• Are do-not-plays rude? Not at all—clear boundaries = happier dance floor.
• Can I share a Spotify playlist? Sure—for vibe, not a strict order. Use it as inspiration.
Next Steps:
Enter your wedding date in the Check Availability widget on this page to see if I’m available, then complete the form at the bottom. I’ll email you to set up a quick planning chat about your music vibe and timeline. Prime weekends fill quickly—peek while your date may still be open.
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