What to Tell Your DJ (So They Don’t Accidentally Play Your Ex’s Favorite Song)

We’ve all been there. You’re out having a great time, the music’s perfect, you’re in your happy place… and then—
BAM.
That one song starts playing. The one tied to someone you’d rather forget. And suddenly your happy dance turns into a slow-motion horror scene.

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Now, imagine that happening on your wedding day.
Exactly. We’re not letting it happen.

Why Your DJ Needs More Than Just a Playlist

When you hire a wedding DJ, you’re not just hiring a human Spotify. You’re hiring a vibe curator, a crowd reader, and—if you communicate well—a guardian against musical disasters.
And yes, “Your Ex’s Favorite Song” counts as a musical disaster.

The Do-Not-Play List: Your Musical Security Blanket

This list is non-negotiable for keeping your wedding day drama-free. It should include:

• Songs tied to bad memories (breakups, fights, awkward prom moments).

• Tracks that make you cringe, roll your eyes, or instantly need more champagne.

• Overplayed wedding songs you just don’t vibe with (“YMCA,” anyone?).

💡 Pro tip: Be honest here. If your groom doesn’t know the story behind “Mr. Brightside,” this is your chance to quietly save him from a reception-level plot twist.

Other Things Your DJ Needs to Know

While we’re at it, give your DJ the full cheat sheet:

• Your Must-Play Moments – First dance, parent dances, must-have party anthems.

• Your Guest Mix – Age range, favorite genres, “no-go” styles.

• Special Announcements – Surprise entrances, dedications, or choreographed dances.

• Timeline Triggers – Cues for speeches, cake cutting, bouquet toss.

The more your DJ knows, the smoother your night will flow.

FOMO Is Real

Here’s the thing—couples who don’t have this conversation sometimes end up with dance floor disasters:

• Your ex’s favorite emo anthem during dinner.

• A breakup ballad right after your first dance.

• A song with way more explicit lyrics than you remember… and grandma’s sitting right there.

The couples who DO communicate? They get that perfect mix where every track feels intentional, fun, and totally “them.”

Let’s Lock In Your Soundtrack

Your wedding playlist should be a highlight reel, not a history lesson.
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